Knowing When To Commit To Love

 

Commitment To LoveIf you're in a relationship that's going fairly well, at one point or another there's going to be some sort of pressure to commit even further. What that means is conditional of course and can depend on all sorts of things, such as your culture or personal beliefs. Even so, whether from your family, friends, or directly from your partner, that sometimes dreaded subject is bound to come up. How serious is all of this really, and where is it headed? Where do you see the relationship going? Shall I commit to this love? It goes on and on.

These kinds of questions can make your head spin, and they can unfortunately lead to a lot of doubt that sadly tends to dampen what was once something fun and lighthearted. Maybe you got together with someone and agreed to start dating and now it's been a few months or perhaps even a year. If you and your partner are hitting it off, it's only natural for one of you or all the people in your circle to start wondering if things are going to progress even further, in one way or another. If you're faced with that situation, how do you know if it's the right decision to truly commit to love all the way?

First of all, the fact that you're unsure is not a bad sign! It's just that committing to someone in some sort of permanent way is a huge decision for anyone. It shows a lot of smarts on your part if your first reaction to this situation is to really sit and think about it. Never let anyone give you a hard time for trying to go about any major relationship decisions in a cautious manner. Flying by the seat of your pants can be fun in the moment, but it can just as easily spell disaster later on.

From there, you really just have to take stock about how you feel about your partner. Can you imagine life without them anymore? Do you look forward to a future with them? Do you feel better when you have them there to talk to or hold, than when you're alone? There are all sorts of mental checks to go through, and everyone has their own, which happen to be important to them. If you go through everything and realise that you really do hope to be with your girlfriend or boyfriend as long as possible, then it's a good sign you're probably ready to give committing a chance.

4 Signs You Need To End Your Romantic Relationship

Saying Goodbye To Love

There comes a time in every relationship when you either need to commit or move on. The signs you need to move on are often there, but many people hope to overlook them for fear of being alone. It's still better to get a reality check early on than to realise things aren't going to work out well after you're married with kids. Here are four signs you should end your romantic relationship and move on:

You Feel You Need To Change

Does your partner accept you as you are or do you constantly feel the pressure to change? Asking someone to stop making salad for every lunch and dinner isn't the same thing as being told to drop weight or wear certain clothes. If you constantly feel like whatever you do isn't good enough, it's not a relationship that should continue.

You've Never Been Introduced To Family

Do you know anything about your partner's past and have you met their family members? If not, this could be a serious issue and it could be showing a dark past or hidden intentions. In fact, your love interest may be hiding you from other aspects of their life which could be cause for concern.

You Don't Feel Supported

Of course support comes easy when things are going right and you're happy. What about when you're sad or something bad has happened in your life? Does your partner offer support when you need it the most? If not, you should really think about ending the relationship because a lack of understanding or support is never a good sign.

They Can't Stand Your Family

Your partner doesn't need to love every member of your family, but if they don't respect your relationship with them, it could be serious trouble. If you find that telling your partner that your parents or siblings are coming over is hard to do, your relationship really isn't built to last. At the end of the day, family is important and they shouldn't be removed from your life.

Being in a romantic relationship with someone should make you a better person. You should feel unconditional love and support from your partner, but if that's not happening, you should end the relationship. It can be hard to move on when you've been together for some time, but it can be best to consider a future without one another.

Using Telephone Dating Services To Find Love And Hook Up

For those who have never used a dating site before, or a telephone dating service, you may not be aware of how much you are missing. You could be very lonely, hoping that someone will come into your life, but without making a positive effort to find someone, you probably won't. One thing that everyone can do is join an adult chat service where you can talk to people who may have similar interests to your own. Whether this is political, humour or a belief in the afterlife, you will often be able to connect with someone who you can speak with and have fun.

 

How To Choose The Right Phone Dating Line

First of all, you are going to want to join a couple different ones just to make sure you have plenty of people to listen to and chat with. These services have many people phoning in and staying on the line to speak to others who arrive. They are hoping to meet someone special, or maybe just someone new to talk to. Search for individuals who share similar interests and hobbies as you and then start talking to some of them every day. You will eventually find someone who really makes you happy, who you connect with and who you actually believe is compatible with you. This then may lead to a date or even a relationship.

 

How To Have Fun While Using These Services

You can have fun using chat rooms by simply not taking it seriously. Even if you are lonely, or if you are looking for someone who can be with you, it's usually better to not even try. It's much like playing a sport where you are focused on not making a mistake, or making a particular shot. The more you focus upon it, the more likely it is that what you don't want to have happen, will. By looking at dating as something that is fun to do, instead of a necessity, you will be more like yourself while you are talking on the phone and this will inevitably attract someone into your life who really wants to talk with you.

These are just a few tips to consider when you are using these chat rooms. It's just a good way to have fun. Plus, if you need to fill in time where you are bored, just pick up the phone, ring one of these lines and you will be on your way to having more fun then you have had in years. Just remember to look at this as something enjoyable to do and it may also help you find someone special in your life.

A Girls Guide To Knowing When He's Not Right For You

Not The Right ManEveryone is looking for love, or at least the majority of the world’s population are.  We're looking for that someone to share our adventures, secrets and memories with. The question is: how do you find that ideal someone and when you find the person, how do you know he is right for you?  The saying goes that when its right, you'll just know - say that to someone with rose-tinted honeymoon phase, goggles.  So, while we may not be able to tell you when it is right, it is certainly possible to tell when it is wrong.  This is the girl’s guide to knowing when he is not the right guy and when it's time to move on.

You Feel Uncomfortable Around Him

By uncomfortable I am not referring to the discomfort you feel when you are wearing shoes that don't fit well; although that is something worth taking note of.  By uncomfortable in this instance, we are going to talk about feelings of emotional discomfort when around him.  The most important aspect of any relationship is to be yourself and be willing to share all parts of your personality without concern.  Typically, this is the foundation of the relationship and the reason he should love you; however, if you feel so uncomfortable that you aren't able to express yourself, it may be possible that your mind and body are telling you subconsciously it's time to call it quits.

Keeping Score

"You owe me one!" is generally a humorous comment that should not be taken seriously, or if it is taken seriously should be playful like owing pancakes or a back rub.  In many cases relationships could begin with light-hearted score keeping; however, if your beau continues to do this and pays more attention to the score it may be a sign of insecurity.  A person who constantly needs to prove they are winning at something, lacks confidence and will continue this behaviour.  Unless you are willing to engage in these games, he may not be the right person for you.

Not Sexually Compatible

Sexually Incompatible Couple

Sexual compatibility is a highly important part of any romantic relationship.  By sexual compatibility, we are referring to anything from a brief peck on the lips to full intercourse.  Would you really consider spending your life with another person who fails to make your toes tingle when kissing you?  If you are doing this, you may want to reconsider, when you are continuing in a relationship that lacks sexually appeal.  For some it may be a ‘dry patch’ caused by external influences; but if your partner does nothing for you whatsoever from the beginning, he may not be the guy for you.

The Importance Of Texting And Videos In Romance

 

Texting In Love

If you want to find a romantic interest and you are using dating websites, one of the best ways to build a solid foundation with a person, is to use texting and videos. It's really not enough to chat through services offered by dating sites. In a way, texting and videos are a second stage of the process. Texting and sending videos will help you determine whether or not the new person, in your life, is someone you want to be in a relationship with.

Why Texting And Video Chats Are So Important

First of all, when you move to this level, the other person is comfortable enough with you, to share personal information, such as their phone number, so that the two of you can connect. This trust builds a foundation for a relationship that might end up being very good. It is also the only way that you will ever know enough about the person before you meet, if they are really the person that they say they are on their biography. When you get to speak with an individual, you can learn more about them. You can listen to the tone of their voice and discover if they truly are interested in the things they say they are interested in, by the responses that you receive.

Where To Take It From There

You can take this relationship to a completely different level once you get to sharing phone numbers. If you really do like talking to this person, you could end up going out on dates and eventually have an actual relationship. It takes a lot of courage for some people to go to this next level because there it requires a little bit of commitment. This next step is obviously meeting this individual and once you do, you will know if you are actually conversing with someone who is just like you.

The prospect of dating people can be terrifying for many, especially if they have been in bad relationships, previously. Texting and video chatting brings its own level of trust and your new partner will like this about you. This could end up being something very special, or perhaps the two of you are just looking for a one night stand and if it's mutual, then that can work out as well. It just all begins with sharing phone numbers, and then you can see where it goes from there.